If you keep making the same romantic mistakes, you're not alone. Fortunately, you can correct these missteps with a few simple Feng Shui cures. Using your front door as a reference point, you can locate your “Love Gua”, which is in the far right corner of your home. Placing cures in this key area can turn your love life from drab to fab. In the event your residence has several floors, you need to implement the necessary cures on every level. When it comes to Feng Shui, there is no such thing as overkill!
Ward Off Commitment Phobics – If you habitually hook up with lovers who fear commitment, clear your Love Gua of fragile ornaments and unstable furniture. Place two handsome pottery bowls side-by-side on a sturdy shelf or table. Leave the bowls empty until you've met your love match. Fill the pots with matching plants once you've met your soul mate. (It won't be long now!)
Stop Being a Lone Wolf – Are you having trouble finding a mate? Check your Love Gua for artwork and photographs depicting lone images. Signal your desire for romance by displaying a beautiful image of a romantic couple in this space. A single chair can also ward off love. Replace it with an attractive love seat that is covered with sensual fabric. Above all, check that your bed has enough space on either side for a person to comfortably enter and exit.
Discourage Unwanted Company – If you've been the victim of an extracurricular love affair, take steps to prevent this from ever happening again. Make sure that your Love Gua and bedroom are clear of images that are triangular in shape. This includes diamonds, sunbursts, and pyramids. Position the bed flat against the wall. If you must place the bed on a diagonal slant, place a tall plant in the empty space behind the headboard. Otherwise, you will be drawing further unwelcome energy into the bedroom. Above all, avoid triangular headboards like the plague!
Balance Work with Play – Tired of sacrificing your love life for the sake of work? Keep your bedroom and Love Gua clear of the following items: exercise equipment, computers, desks and filing cabinets. Fill these spaces with romantic objects that are designed to engage your senses. Plump pillows, soft carpeting and lounging furniture are all ideal additions. Jewel tones like sapphire, ruby and amethyst also work well here.
Spice Things Up – If your relationship is as comfortable as an old shoe, boredom can ensue. Spice things up a little by keeping both your Love Gua and bedroom spacious and airy. Ideally, your furnishings should not take up more than half the total space of these areas. Relocate big, cumbersome pieces to other parts of your home. Position scented candles in front of a bedroom mirror and light them each night. The leaping flames and fragrant aroma will add zest to your love life. A string of fairy lights can also help.
